Calling, Not Clout: What Makes a Real Leader

I’m a CEO, executive coach, husband, and father, but one of the most meaningful things I do in my spare time is coach a 14U girls basketball team. Lately, I’ve found myself talking with them less about plays and more about leadership. What it looks like. What it costs. What it actually means.

And the more we talk, the more I notice something: a lot of them — like so many of us — are growing up in a world where leadership looks a lot like clout. The one with the most followers. The one who talks the loudest. The one who gets the most attention. But is that real leadership, or just visibility dressed up as influence?

That question led me to something deeper: What actually makes a great leader in a moment like this? Quietly, I found myself reflecting on what both my experience and my faith say about how we talk about leadership — and how much we get it wrong.

In this age of platforms, personal brands, and public recognition, visibility often gets mistaken for leadership. We equate influence with importance. Clout with calling. The loudest leaders — the ones with the biggest platforms or the most online visibility — often get the most attention. Not because they serve well, but because they trend well. We’ve tied leadership to clout instead of proven impact — and it’s costing us.

But if the last few years have shown us anything, it’s this: Clout might get you in the room. But calling is what keeps you grounded and reminds you why you walked in to begin with.

On top of that, we live in an era where we highlight and obsess over bad leadership more than we lift up the leaders who are doing it right. Across the country, new leaders are rising — younger, more diverse, more ideological. Their lens is political, cultural, and often shaped online. They’re not waiting their turn. They’re already changing the game — for better or worse.

But as the landscape shifts, so does the question: what kind of leadership are we actually encouraging? Leadership, at its best, isn’t about personal elevation. It’s about lifting others — even when no one sees it. It’s about being selfless, putting others before yourself, and helping teammates, coworkers, and communities thrive. But when leadership becomes more about prestige than responsibility, it’s just clout chasing with a title.

As Kendrick Lamar put it: “Clout chasing — hell of a disease, brother.” That line hits harder than ever, because clout is contagious. And in too many circles, it’s become the drug of choice. Clout is loud. It rewards the biggest voices and the most polished profiles. It’s about optics — short bursts of hype, fast-moving attention, and popularity that fades as quickly as it came.

True leadership requires depth. It invites you to wrestle with tough questions, to carry responsibility even when it’s heavy, and to sacrifice for something greater than yourself. The best leaders I know — across race, age, and industry — aren’t necessarily the ones dominating social media platforms. They’re focused on being effective, staying ahead of trends, and building healthy cultures. They mentor young staff, lead with empathy even when it’s not the easiest path, and turn down opportunities that don’t align with their convictions — even if it costs them.

They’re not clout chasing. They’re answering a deeper responsibility — one that asks more of them than it rewards. This moment calls us to rethink what leadership really means — whether you lead a team, a city, a classroom, or just yourself. It challenges us to reimagine leadership as service, not status.

We’ve seen what happens when clout leads — when charisma outpaces results. Institutions unravel. Trust evaporates. People get hurt. And in the rubble, we start craving something more lasting. More rooted. That craving is a clue.

Because the truth is: every great leader isn’t just talented — they’re anchored. Anchored in purpose. Anchored in people. Anchored in principle. They don’t just want to be seen — they want to be useful. They don’t just want influence — they want impact. They don’t chase applause — they answer a calling.

And often, that calling doesn’t come with a title. It comes with a burden. A vision. A quiet, steady pull toward what’s right, even when it’s inconvenient.

At its core, leadership demands honest reflection and purposeful action. You don’t need to be famous to be called to lead. You don’t need to be from a marginalized community to lead with justice. You don’t need to have the biggest platform to make the biggest difference. But you do need clarity and courage. You need an internal compass that keeps bringing you back to the deeper questions: Who am I accountable to when no one’s watching? Who benefits from my leadership? What do I stand for when no one’s clapping?

A better kind of leadership is possible. One that doesn’t rely on noise or image. One rooted in clarity, consistency, and care. The kind that earns trust over time — not through visibility, but through presence. Because what we need now isn’t more leaders chasing platforms. We need more leaders building something that lasts.

Clout fades. But proven impact remains. And calling still matters.

About the Author
Henry Sanders is the CEO of Madison365, founder of the 365 Leadership Summit, and an executive coach who helps leaders build themselves and their teams with clarity and impact.

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